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Ah good friends...........thank you so much for your thoughts, prayers, concern. We are definitely charting unknown territiry here. The short of it..........Fred lost his first wife to cancer when she was 35. His daughter, Karen, was 14. Her 'dream' from a little girl was to be a dairy farmer. So when she met Rod, a dairy farmer, he was her Prince Charming. On January 19 he was killed in one of their silos. So now as a wife, Karen has lost her husband. She has 500 acres and 200 milking cows and over 100 heifers and only 1 hired man. Rod did the work of 2 fulltime workers and she pulled a full load too.
This is all just too sad. Fred is heartbroken seeing his little girl experience the grief, loss, and loneliness that he did all those years ago. And he did not have a dairy farm to keep going.
We all are trying to navigate and find our way. Hopefully someone will provide a compass before too long.
Thanks again to all - you're the BEST!
Kasey and Fred
_________________ Kasey ~ 8 year survivor ~ Stage IIIb 'inoperable' (yea, right!) lung cancer 9/20/04 Dx lc 9/24/04 Bronchoscopy 10/08/04 CT guided needle biopsy 10/14/04 Dx Pancoast tumor - NSCLC 111a(?) - inoperable - incurable 11/02/04 2nd opinion - Sloan-Kettering - concurs with local dx and tx 11/03/04-12/02/04 Radiation x22 chemo x5 taxol/carboplatin 11/04 - 3rd opinion - FoxChase -turned away 11/04 FOUND LCSC & HOPE 11/04 4th opinion NIH - surgery possible 1/04/05 Successful surgery - RU lobectomy - all margins, nodes, and path reports are NEGATIVE 2/05 chemo x2 taxol/carboplatin 3/05 Esophagus stretched twice 4/06/05 bloodwork, chest x-ray, CT scan, PET scan, NED 5/05 2 more esophagus stretches 7/13/05 bloodwork, chest x-ray, CT scan, PET scan, brain MRI, NED 10/05/05 bloodwork, chest x-ray, PET/CT scan, NED 1/11/06 bloodwork, chest x-ray, PET/CT scan, brain MRI, NED 4/05/06 bloodwork, chest x-ray, PET/CT scan, NED 6/10/06 emergency appendectomy 7/12/06 bloodwork, chest x-ray, PET/CT scan, brain MRI, NED 9/26/06 bloodwork, chest x-ray, PET/CT scan, NED 1/10/07 bloodwork, urinalysis, chest x-ray, CT, PET/CT scan, arm CT, brain MRI, NED 7/11/07 bloodwork, urinalysis, chest x-ray, PET/CT scan, brain MRI, NED 1/9/08 bloodwork, urinalysis, chest x-ray, PET/CT scan, brain MRI, CT w/contrast.....mm 'spot' lower right lobe - watch and wait 3 months 4/8/08 bloodwork, urinalysis, chest x-ray, PET/CT scan, NED 10/14/08 bloodwork, urinaysis, chest x-ray, PET/CT scan, brain MRI, NED 4/15/09 bloodwork, urinalysis, chest x-ray, PET/CT scan, brain MRI, NED 10/13/09 bloodwork, urinalysis, chest x-ray, PET/CT scan, brain MRI, CT/contrast, NED 4/13-4/15/10 bloodwork, urinalysis, chest x-ray, PET/CT scan, brain MRI, CT/contrast, PFT, echocardiogram, EKG, stress test, NED 4/11-4/13/2011 bloodwork, urinalysis, chest x-ray, PET scan, CT scan w/contrast, brain MRI, NED 4/16-4/18/2012 bloodwork, urinalysis, chest x-ray, PET scan, CT scan w/contrast, brain MRI, NED
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